Chapter 06Family & Parenting

Are the terrible twos real?

Yes — toddlers acquire big emotions before the brain circuits to regulate them. Tantrums peak around 18 months to 3 years. Naming feelings ('you're frustrated') and offering choices ('this cup or that cup?') helps more than reasoning.

Follow-up questions

Time-outs — good or bad?

Brief 'time-ins' with a calm parent nearby work better than isolation for most young children.

When do they end?

Usually around 3.5–4, though threenagers are a thing.

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